Monday, March 26, 2018

Unpacking the March for Our Lives from a different perspective


Estimates of the number of people who jammed their way into space in front of the Capitol building in Washington, D.C. for Saturday's March for Our Lives range from as little to just over 200,000 people to over 1 million. 

Organizers expected about half a million people, and anything over that figure would easily make the day a smashing success. Detractors might use the lowball estimate to argue that the rally was a failure. 

The debate about numbers misses the point. From the perspective of someone who was there in the crowd, it sure looked like a lot of people. A lot of people both young and old, a lot of students, a lot of parents, a lot of teachers, a lot of people whose lives have been affected by gun violence.

I'm neither young, nor old. I have no children, and my life has not been directly affected by gun violence as of the time I write this. 

Yet, I was there. Even with a bad leg that's still recovering from a fall, I was there. Even though I didn't lose anyone I know or love to a mass shooting, I was there. Even though I'm single and I have no children, I was there.

I was there because I grieved when Adam Lanza killed 20 children and six staff members at Sandy Hook Elementary School in December 2012. I literally had to log off my phone with tears in my eyes and walk off the floor because I imagined being a parent and learning that my child didn't make it. 

I was there because one of the very first Facebook profile photos I used shows a Maryland Terrapin and the Virginia Tech logo over the saying, "Today, we are all Hokies." 

I was there because I'm tired of the fiction the National Rifle Association continues to peddle. The fiction that gun violence is something we can do nothing about and the right to own a gun outweighs anyone's life. As a reminder, the right of "a well-regulated militia" to responsibly own guns is part of the Second Amendment. The rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness were American ideals before the Constitution was even written. 

I was there, most importantly, because I was inspired. Inspired by the strength and conviction shown by the Parkland survivors. Inspired by their using their privilege to give voice to people all too often kept silent: Black victims of gun violence. Inspired by the persistence of Cameron Kasky in pressuring Sen. Marco Rubio (R-Florida) to answer a yes or no question about taking NRA money, and encouraged by their determination to continue to speak even though some try to ignore them or to dismiss them because some of them aren't old enough to vote. Inspired by seeing other folks my age or older who were also inspired by these survivors.

I was inspired even more in the days leading up to the march when Parkland survivor David Hogg challenged people with "white privilege" to use it to address gun violence in the black and other communities.

"We recognize that Parkland received more attention because of its affluence," Parkland survivor Jaclyn Corin said, according to CNN's article about the march. "But we share this stage today and forever with those communities who have always stared down the barrel of a gun."

 Now that millions of Americans, some barely entering voting age in time for November's midterm elections have been inspired, what's next? As someone who hasn't had to face being dismissed because I'm a kid since the George H.W. Bush administration, I challenge the people in power to listen to these activists. I challenge the NRA to recognize that unfettered access to assault weapons does not equal responsible gun ownership and to support our calls for common-sense gun control legislation. I challenge those on the far right who claim the government's going to come after their guns to realize that President Obama never tried to.

Most importantly, I challenge all of us to inform ourselves of the facts about these and all other vital issues of the day and get out and vote in November.

That's how change happens. That's how America finally got out of Vietnam. That's how we'll finally get common-sense gun control.